If you’re an earth person, you’re probably pretty grounded and know how to take care of yourself. You’re also probably not going to let someone else walk all over you. That’s why it can be so hard when a relationship ends and your partner walks out on you. It feels like they’ve just taken away your footing in this world. But if you want to move on from the pain of a broken heart, there are ways for you to do it.
Be honest with yourself about your feelings. Don’t try to pretend that you don’t miss them or that everything is fine when it isn’t. Instead, be honest about what you’re feeling—the good and the bad—and write down every thought that runs through your mind about what happened between you two and what could have been different, had things gone differently between the two of you. It’s important that you don’t shy away from any of these thoughts; instead, let them flow freely onto paper so that they don’t clutter up your mind and make it difficult for you to focus on anything else besides those thoughts later on down the road when things start getting better between now and then again.
You have probably been through a breakup or two in your life. Maybe even more than that. Breakups aren’t easy for anyone, but if you’re an earth element, it can be especially difficult to get over them. The first thing to understand is that earth elements are not just the most grounded people—you are also the most sensitive. Because you are so in touch with your emotions and needs, you can become very picky about who you date and spend time with. When you find someone who makes you happy, you hold on tight and don’t let go easily. And when something goes wrong or starts to feel off, you have trouble letting go even if you know it’s best for you.
This can cause problems in relationships because earth elements often try to fix problems by working hard instead of communicating clearly with your partner—and as a result, your partner ends up feeling like “fixing” isn’t enough because nothing has changed between you except for your partner’s behavior (which isn’t always good). Earth element people tend to be very practical, and they often seek out relationships that are stable and secure. You can be deeply affected by a breakup because you have such strong feelings of attachment to your partners and your relationship. You may feel betrayed or abandoned because you put so much of yourself into the relationship.
This is why earth element people need to take special care when recovering from a break up or divorce. You need to get back into your routine as soon as possible. After a breakup or divorce, it can be tempting to stop doing things you normally do and just sit around feeling sorry for yourself all day long. This isn’t healthy! Instead, try getting back into your regular schedule as soon as possible—this will help keep up your morale during this difficult time and make it easier for you to get through the grieving process more quickly than if you were just sitting around feeling sorry for yourself all day long. Moreover, you don’t have to focus on what went wrong in your relationship – instead focus on all the good times.