Fire

As a fire person, you fall in love with your partner, who is seen as the only person who can understand your fire-related needs and desires. You are drawn to partners who are passionate and can keep up with them, but also have a sense of self-control that doesn't match the fire-person's wild side. You often have a hard time connecting with other people because you have trouble identifying with your negative emotions, so you may feel pressure to suppress them or hide them from others. However, when you fall in love with someone who understands and accepts those emotions, it's easy for you to open up about yourself and become more comfortable sharing your feelings with others.

You love to fall in love, but you don't always know how to do it. You’re not a person to take risks or make unannounced moves, so you tend to be a bit more passive than your earth and water counterparts. You know that if you want something, you need to go after it yourself—but it can be hard for you to figure out exactly what "it" is. That's why fire people need help figuring out how to go after what they want. If you're looking for someone who is kind and honest, who will treat you like an equal partner in whatever relationship you have, then fire people are a great option.

You, as a fire person, fall in love with the same intensity as you burn. You are drawn to the flame, and you are captivated by its power. You see the fire for what it is: beautiful, bright, and powerful. And when people look at you, they see that same beauty, even if you don't know it's there yet. When you are with someone who loves you like fire loves oxygen, you will know. You will feel it in their touch and hear it in their voice. You will know when they look at you that they see something worth loving—even if you do not see it yourself yet. The only difference is that fire people have a much stronger connection with their own feelings and emotions than most people do. They are able to see those feelings as clearly as they can see the color of their own eyes, and they experience them more intensely than others do.

When you fall in love, it is because you have chosen to put yourself out there and make yourself vulnerable to another person. It doesn't matter who that person is—it could be your best friend or someone you have just met at a party—but what matters is that you've decided to open up your heart and let someone else into it. And when you do that? It's like opening up a floodgate: all those emotions come rushing out like water from a dam breaking apart under pressure from too many rainstorms over too many years. And when it happens? You feel like you're drowning in happiness because of the good things that are approaching.