Metal

The metal element governs the heart. In a romantic relationship, this element is strongly connected to the way we express love and affection. People with the metal element like you tend to be very devoted, loyal partners. You are extremely caring and protective, and you tend to give your all in a relationship. You don't like drama, so you will do whatever it takes to avoid conflict and keep your relationships peaceful and harmonious.

This doesn't mean that people with the metal element are boring or predictable, though! While you may be more reserved than other elements when it comes to romance, you still have plenty of romantic energy to give—you just do it in different ways than most people might expect. A person with this element might be shy at first around new people but once you get comfortable with someone you will open up more quickly than you'd expect. Metal element people are very loving and caring, but you can also be very stubborn. You may act as if you don't care about others, but in fact you do. It's just that you don't show your true feelings easily.

You are self-conscious and you always want to look good in front of your partner. You will try to avoid doing anything that would make you look bad in front of your partner. You believe that if you do something wrong then it will hurt your relationship with your partner. When a metal element person is dating someone then he/she will not cheat on them because he/she does not like cheating people and he/she believes that if he cheats then his partner will not love him anymore or will leave him alone forever. Metal people are loyal, honest and faithful. They are also good at keeping secrets. But they can be extremely insensitive, egocentric and self-centered.

You are likely leaning to being in control of your life and relationships and have a tendency to dominate the relationship with your partners. Metal people are also known for being extremely jealous, possessive and controlling. You can easily feel hurt when someone doesn't show you enough attention or when someone stands up to you. Metal element people are often hard to understand. You are quiet, reserved, and you keep to themselves. People with metal in your elemental make-up tend to be introverts, but you also have a strong sense of self-awareness. 

Furthermore, this means that you are very aware of your own thoughts and feelings. You know what you want out of life, and you are good at prioritizing what matters most to you. This can make it difficult for metal people to find romantic partners who are on the same page as them. You may feel like you need more attention than other elements, but it's not always easy for you to express this need without seeming too needy or demanding. Specifically, you need to take time to warm up before sharing your feelings with others (especially if those feelings are negative). Don't try to rush them—it won't work! If your partner doesn't seem interested in talking about your relationship when you first meet each other, just give them time. You'll notice that over time they will become more open about expressing themselves emotionally as they grow more comfortable in the relationship.