How can you understand and recover from a breakup/divorce?

Libra, my gentle and harmonious soul, I know that love, for you, is not just a passing feeling but a foundation upon which you build your life. You are ruled by Venus, the planet of love and beauty, which means that relationships are at the very core of who you are. You seek balance, connection, and a sense of partnership that makes the world feel whole. Love is not something you take lightly—it is something you pour your heart into, something you nurture with patience, care, and the belief that when two people come together, they can create something truly beautiful. And so, when love is lost—whether through a breakup or a divorce—it is not just the end of a relationship for you. It is the loss of a dream, the breaking of a bond that you had hoped would last, the unraveling of something you worked so hard to maintain.

I know that right now, you are carrying the weight of this heartbreak in a way that few people can see. You are someone who values grace, who tries to keep the peace, who does not like to let others see you struggling. You may be telling yourself that you should be okay by now, that you should be able to move on, that you should not let this heartbreak define you. But Libra, healing is not about shoulds. It is not about pretending to be fine before you truly are. It is about allowing yourself to feel, to process, to sit with the emotions that are rising within you instead of pushing them away. And I know that is not always easy for you. You do not like conflict—not with others, not within yourself. But heartbreak, as painful as it is, is not something you can smooth over with logic or distractions. It is something that demands to be felt, so that, in time, it can be released.

Right now, I know that your heart is full of questions. You are searching for answers, for understanding, for a way to make sense of why something that once felt so right has now come to an end. You are replaying moments, analyzing every conversation, wondering if there was something you could have done differently. But Libra, some things are not meant to be figured out—they are simply meant to be experienced. Some relationships come into our lives to teach us, to show us something about ourselves, to shape us in ways we do not yet understand. And just because this love ended does not mean it was not real. It does not mean it did not matter. It simply means that it was not meant to be the love that carries you forward.

I know that part of you wants to make peace with this loss, to find a way to move forward without resentment, without bitterness, without feeling like you have lost a part of yourself. And that is beautiful, Libra. Your heart is full of kindness, full of a desire to see the good in others, even when they have hurt you. But do not mistake forgiveness for forcing yourself to be okay before you are ready. You are allowed to be angry. You are allowed to be sad. You are allowed to feel every emotion that comes with heartbreak without rushing to find closure. Closure is not always something that comes from a conversation or an explanation. Sometimes, it comes from within, from deciding that you do not need every answer to move forward, from trusting that the universe is guiding you toward something even better.

There will be moments when the loneliness feels unbearable, when you miss them in ways you did not expect, when you wonder if you will ever find a love like this again. And in those moments, I want you to remember this—you are not alone. You have always been surrounded by love, in so many forms. In your friendships, in the people who cherish you, in the beauty of the world that still exists even in your sadness. Love is not gone from your life. It has simply changed form. And one day, when you are ready, it will return to you in ways you cannot yet imagine.

Healing, for you, Libra, comes in restoring balance within yourself. It comes in remembering that while love is a beautiful part of life, it is not the only thing that defines you. You are more than the love you give to others. You are more than your relationships. You are a soul full of light, of creativity, of kindness, of the ability to see beauty in everything around you. And now, in this moment, your task is to turn that love inward. To give yourself the same patience, the same grace, the same care that you have always given to others. To nurture yourself in the way you have always longed to be nurtured.

One day, Libra, when the pain has softened, when you have found your way back to yourself, love will find you again. And this time, it will be different. This time, it will not be love that leaves you questioning. It will not be love that asks you to compromise parts of yourself just to keep it alive. It will be love that meets you where you are, love that feels balanced, love that feels like home without needing to be forced. And when that love comes, you will know. Because it will not feel like something you have to fight for. It will feel like something that was always meant to be yours.

But for now, Libra, take your time. Allow yourself to heal in the way that only you can. Be gentle with yourself. Be kind. You are not broken. You are not lost. You are simply in the process of becoming, of growing, of stepping into the next chapter of your life with even more wisdom, even more clarity, even more understanding of what you truly deserve. And what you deserve, Libra, is love that is steady, love that is true, love that is unwavering. And that love, my dear, is still ahead of you.