PISCES 3 How can you understand and recover from a breakup/divorce?
PISCES
How can you understand and recover from a breakup/divorce?
PISCES 3
Pisces people cherish all the connections they share with and so have perceived detachment and separation from their lover, spouse or friend to be a challenging task. Their caring nature and persistence to keep things as they are is a mesmerizing feat as even individuals who have wronged them are held dear just the same as they are aware of the lingering pain the severance of relationship brings and they would make every attempt, take every measure to avoid such a heartbreaking situation. Pisceans will often attempt to chase these feelings away by going through a number of inappropriate coping strategies that appear therapeutic at the moment, behaviors that they will later on regret doing. However, as someone born with an emotional sensitivity and depth, they feel things on a deeper level and so have always found breaking up and moving on to be an equally arduous challenge that will require specific actions, interventions, ideas and environment in order to fully heal from the madness it entails. They will initially need to allot an extensive amount of time for themselves to embrace and feel the emotions that precede the official termination of relationship. Running head first towards any potential admirer to move on from the past is considered an exploitative method that is bound to cause more damage than good, therefore, it is necessary for these Pisces people to undergo the process of grieving for them to truly heal, and this is known as; denial, anger, bargaining, depression, and finally, acceptance. Though Pisceans already have prior knowledge concerning a healthy and systematic recovery, suppressing and denying themselves this opportunity will only prolong the Piscean’s recovery phase that would have been significantly reduced had it been thoroughly adhered to.
It will especially be helpful for Pisces individuals to rediscover or develop a new set of hobbies in order to divert their attention from the lingering pain of yearning for physical intimacy from their former lover. While Pisceans are born certain of their identity and purpose in the world, chances are, their grasp has loosened due to the profound impact the heartbreak of separation brought upon their lives. Additionally, they will be remarkably benefited once they have found themselves ready to establish self-care routines as such demonstration of behaviors that seeks health-promoting activities signifies their keenness to improve their well being that covers all domains of wellness namely: physical, emotional, mental and spiritual. In doing so, they will also learn how to better manage stress, improve mindfulness of one’s own actions and thoughts as well as will lead to healthier interpersonal relationships. Change of routine though unnerving at first will prove to be a highly profitable choice for they will be able to discover themselves once more, learn to forgive themselves for having been negligent of their own needs in order to fulfill other’s requirements and demands. Furthermore, they will need to surround themselves with the right company who will further help them with the healing process such as their family colleagues. Pisceans must bear in mind that change is inevitable and given enough time they will emerge to be better individuals capable of many things.