Aries 1 What kind of partner do you look for in a relationship?
Aries
What kind of partner do you look for in a relationship?
ARIES 1
As an Aries, you look for a partner who is strong-willed and ambitious. You want someone who can keep up with your fast pace and never back down from a challenge. You also need a partner who is willing to put in the effort to make things work between the two of you. Aries, healthy relationships require effort and compromise from both partners and involve open communication, honesty, trust, and respect between partners. There is no power disparity. You want to share decisions, accept each other’s independence, and you want to be free to act independently without fear of repercussions. There is no stalking or refusal to let the other partner go if or when a relationship ends.
You desire a person who will respect your personal space and privacy. Your companion does not have to be present all the time. It is crucial that your partner supports your desire to engage in activities you enjoy and spend time with friends away from them. Additionally, it’s crucial that you feel safe enough to physically confide in your partner, feel comfortable sharing your thoughts and worries with them, and that your spouse doesn’t coerce you into doing anything that makes you uncomfortable. If there are disagreements or conflicts, you want a partner who will respect your needs and feelings and who is willing to compromise and negotiate.
Aries, you seek a partner who will respect your personal boundaries. You and your spouse are able to come up with approaches to meeting each other’s needs that you both find to be comfortable. Setting limits is similar to drawing a line. The things you are comfortable with are on one side, and the things you are not comfortable with, don’t feel prepared for, or find uncomfortable are on the other. It is crucial for you to understand where your line should be drawn because everyone’s version of this line looks different. By establishing boundaries, you can help your partner understand your needs and alert you to situations that don’t feel right. You have the right to prioritize your wants over others’ needs, particularly if their needs make you uncomfortable.
Communication is also important to you, Aries. Even when you disagree, you and your spouse can express your emotions in a way that the other person feels safe, heard, and unjudged. Every relationship needs open and honest communication because it enables you to convey who you are and what you need from those around you. Despite being prevalent, miscommunication frequently results in issues, misunderstandings, and hurt feelings. You may communicate honestly with your partner by using these guidelines. When the other person is speaking, pay attention without interruptions (put your phone away); listen to what they are saying rather than just considering how to respond; wait for them to finish talking before you say something; use acknowledging statements like “interesting” to show that you have heard what they are saying; ask questions if you are unsure of something to prevent confusion and misunderstanding; and don’t leave them hanging (if you need to consider what they just said).
